Bitterness vs. Boldness

“Alexander the coppersmith did me much evil: the Lord reward him according to his works: Of whom be thou ware also; for he hath greatly withstood our words.” II Timothy 4:14,15 

The Apostle Paul’s words in the above verses were a sound warning to his son in the faith, Timothy. As I read this passage this morning, I imagined how these same words could be perceived today. In an hour where accusations of “hate speech” or “unloving spirit” are resulting in Christians being afraid to speak up and sound out clear warnings, I’m afraid the apostle’s words would be attacked:

“Paul, you shouldn’t say such things about Alexander – that’s not Christ-like!”

“Paul, you need to get over it – you’re just bitter!”

“Paul, I can’t believe you actually NAMED him!”

If the verses above were read by someone who had no clue who Paul or Timothy was, I can see how they may be perceived as mean-spirited. And yes, there are plenty of people in this world who are filled with bitterness over deep hurts. These people desperately need to allow the Lord to do a work of grace in their hearts so that they can forgive and go forward.

But then there are others, as in Paul’s case, who have been on the receiving end of evil and their heart’s desire is to protect others. Paul’s warnings to Timothy were spoken out of love and concern for this young preacher.

Bottom line – just because a preacher or fellow believer sounds a warning against individuals who have done them evil does not mean that the preacher or fellow-believer is bitter or mean-spirited. As in Paul’s case, they very well may be speaking out of love and concern. And I, for one, and very THANKFUL for those in my life down through the years who have loved me and my family enough to speak with boldness.

“Finally, my brethren, rejoice in the Lord. To write the same things to you, to me indeed is not grievous, but for you it is safe. Beware of dogs, beware of evil workers, beware of the concision.” Philippians 3:1,2